Jeff Sande

Jeff Sande

2018 CHOIS Convention Featured Adult and Teen Speaker


Relational Wisdom

Jeff Sande was raised in Montana. Since his mother was the author of The Young Peacemaker, Jeff has been immersed in biblical peacemaking from an early age. He began teaching relational wisdom at 18 and became a Certified Relational Wisdom Instructor at 21. He has traveled extensively, receiving outstanding reviews for his presentations at youth conferences and corporate training seminars. Jeff graduated from Montana State University -Billings with a double major in business management and marketing and now serves as the Director of Training and Marketing at RW360. Jeff has served as a mentor to elementary school students and has repeatedly volunteered at schools and camps to teach peacemaking to young children. He is an avid athlete and weight-lifter and holds a Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do.

Relational Wisdom: Preparing Children for Life

Relational wisdom—a gospel-driven form of emotional intelligence—is your ability to discern emotions and interests in yourself and in others, to interpret them in the light of God’s Word, and to use these insights to manage your responses and relationships successfully. In this life-changing message, Jeff Sande will describe the biblical and neurological basis for relational wisdom and show how these skills can lead to less stressful and more productive homeschool experience while also preparing children for durable marriages, better job performance and a more credible witness for Christ.

Raising Empathetic Children

Every person is made in the image of God and therefore has a natural capacity for developing and exercising Christ-like empathy. Like all character qualities and skills, this capacity can be deliberately cultivated. As children grow in empathy and compassion, they can enjoy more positive friendships, more fulfilling and durable marriages, and a more compelling witness for Christ.

Powerful Peacemaking

Enjoy a more peaceful and productive classroom by learning how to teach your children how to resolve conflict constructively by discerning the heart desires (idols) that fuel conflict, sincerely confessing their wrongs, graciously confronting others and practicing meaningful forgiveness.

Relational Wisdom in the Movies

Most of our children watch hundreds of hours of electronic media every year … often with little benefit. This workshop will provide practical guidance on how to use popular Hollywood movies to teach life-changing relational skills to your children.



Committed to helping parents fulfill their God-given right and responsibility to educate their own children.